Connect Instantly: 60 Seconds to Likability, Meaningful Connections, and Hitting It off with Anyone
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Rating | : | 4.45 (952 Votes) |
Asin | : | B071HS3DFQ |
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Number of Pages | : | 349 Pages |
Publish Date | : | 2013-07-10 |
Language | : | English |
DESCRIPTION:
Connect Instantly is about breaking though the ice with anyone and setting the stage for friendships and relationships where there doesn't appear to be anything in common. Learn to escape idle chit-chat and hit it off with anyone.. The first 60 seconds make or break you and is the inspection you must always pass. Create a bulletproof first impression and turn strangers into lasting relationships. It focuses on what to actually do when you find yourself meeting new people, what to say, and how to react and respond to them. Beat surface level small talk and truly connect. Learn the subtle signs people actually pay attention to. This book is filled with examples, exact phrases to use, and illustrative exercises. What makes people open up, engage, and connect with them? They've mastered the first 60 seconds of any interaction. You'll learn what people are really judging and evaluating you on when you first meet them and what makes them feel comfortable in the way they do with old friends. Network your way anywhere, anytime. You've seen them - people who have the ability to walk into a room of strangers, instantly befriend everyone, and
One of the better books I have read on the topic KN Extremely solid advice and perspective on first impressions and connecting with people, old friends and new strangers. One of the better books I have read on the topic, and I have read A LOT of books on this topic.Why? I'm not socially awkward or weird, at least I think I'm not. Connecting with people is just a skill I believe is extremely im. Love! I really, really liked the principle of connecting by design. Connect Instantly contains many nuggets of gold. It basically states that we are going from place to place just hoping for a spark of connection or chemistry. We want all our friendships to occur "naturally and organically" and while that would be great, that's not how the real wor. "Great and novel thoughts on what makes a memorable first" according to PJ. Well written and thorough. Great and novel thoughts on what makes a memorable first impression. Far beyond the typical stuff other books talk about such as simple eye contact and appearing to be confident.Of course, that information is good, but HOW do you make good eye contact and HOW do you appear to be confident? This book answers those qu